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Was he helping or luring? PDF Print E-mail
Written by Jeff Griesemer   
Tuesday, 29 June 2010 11:59

It is a case that has made national headlines...  a 14 year old boy from Ocoee, FL arrested and facing possible charges of false imprisonment.   The boy, known as Edwin, is accused of taking a toddler out the front door of the Burlington Coat Factory in West Orange County earlier this month.   Edwin says he was just trying to help find the child's mother.   His fate now lies with the State Attorney's Office.

Was he trying to lure a child for some unspeakable act or was he really just trying to help?  I'll leave that for the legal system to sort out, but it brings up an opportunity to remind parents of a very important safety tip!  At Child Rescue Network we educate parents on this very scenario... a situation that every parent has experienced at least once.   Imagine you're in a crowded store, or mall, or festival, or theme park... you're walking along and suddenly you realize your child is not there!   A wave of panic flows over you... hopefully she pops out from behind the clothes rack and your heart starts beating again, but the reality is that this is a potentially dangerous situation.  A situation in which a predator could take advantage of a scared child.  He might offer to help them find you and may even flash a fake badge.  The next thing you know your child is being led out the door..  

So, how do you protect your child in this scenario?  Believe it or not, it is relatively simple!  At CRN we teach that whenever a child finds herself separated from mom and dad she doesn't need to be afraid.  All she needs to do is STOP, STAY PUT, and DON'T GO ANYWHERE WITH ANYONE.... period.   The whole plan is for her to stay put and wait for you to come back and get her.   This does a few things:  One it empowers the child.  She doesn't need to be scared as she knows the plan.  Two; you aren't walking around in opposite directions looking for one another and Three; it eliminates the opportunity for a predator to take advantage of the situation.    If someone offers to help, great!  Your child simply says, "I'm supposed to wait here until mommy comes back... can you wait with me?"   Even if it is a police officer or security guard... your child should never go anywhere with anyone in this situation.   And if someone tries to force your child to go with them teach your kids to not just cry and scream, but to scream "THIS IS NOT MY DADDY... HELP!"  Guaranteed, if your child is screaming that phrase people will step in to stop whatever is going on. 

As a parent you should reinforce this message every chance you get... every time you walk into the mall you should say, "What's our plan if we get separated?"    The fact is you cannot watch your child every second and so you must empower them to recognize potentially dangerous situations and then how to react if necessary.

 Find more safety tips.... click here.

 

 

Last Updated ( Tuesday, 29 June 2010 12:39 )
 
April is Child Abuse Prevention Month PDF Print E-mail
Written by Jeff Griesemer   
Tuesday, 06 April 2010 14:26

Seems a tragic statement on the society in which we live when we actually have a month set aside to raise awareness of the fact that we shouldn't abuse our children.  However we do and it is April.   A month to raise awareness that every single day thousands and thousands of children are being abused in the U.S.  The abuse varies from the verbal abuse that destroys confidence and creates an atmosphere of fear to the sexual abuse that destroys trust and creates intimacy issues that can last a lifetime. 

Sadly much of the abuse is ongoing because it is being inflicted by family.  Obviously being a parent is the hardest job in the world and unfortunately many important parts of parenthood are not genetically ingrained.  However there are incredible resources available online and through Child Advocacy Agencies in nearly every county in every state.   There are parenting programs held on a regular basis to help parents learn how to better communicate with their kids, how to best discipline, and so much more.  Time is a precious commodity these days, but what is the most important job you will ever have?  Raising mentally and physically healthy children who grow up to respect family and have wonderful relationships, and who contribute to society and help others... maybe it's just me, but I would think would be high on most parents' list of "things to do".  And no it's not that easy, but who ever said it would be?

Take the time... now more than ever before the resources available to help families are abundant.  Some of those resources are listed on our website

The fact is that whether you have children or not you don't want to see them abused.   So get involved in your community.  Volunteer at one of the numerous nonprofit organizations whose mission is to protect children.  Again simply contact the Child Advocacy Agency in your area or contact your Sheriff's Dept. as they should be able to guide you as well.  I know I serve as the Vice-Chair for the Seminole County Child Abuse Prevention Task Force and our monthly meetings are open to the public and we encourage any interested person or organization to attend.  You'll find the meetings listed on our Calendar of Events.  CRN is also part of the Safe Kids Coalition in Orange County and the Child Abuse Prevention Task Force in Osceola County as well.  All of these monthly meetings are open to the public and all provide a variety of programs in their respective communities.

Several of the Task Forces in Florida are conducting community walks to distribute a wide variety of information throughout selected distressed communities.  Again you can volunteer to get involved or simply help spread the word and raise awareness of the need.  No time?  How many people are in your address book?   Simply forward this article and you will have done a lot.  (Click on the little envelop at the top right)  Raising awareness of the issue is the first step... only when enough people stand up and say "This is not acceptable"... only then will we truly be able to generate the changes that are needed.

Wouldn't it be nice if in the not too distant future we can say we no longer need to dedicate a month to raise awareness of child abuse?   I know the ultimate goal of Child Rescue Network is to close our doors because we are no longer needed... how's that for a business model? :)

 

 

 

 

Last Updated ( Wednesday, 07 April 2010 13:26 )
 
Cause-Related Marketing... the Ultimate Win Win! PDF Print E-mail
Written by Jeff Griesemer   
Tuesday, 30 March 2010 12:22

Here at Child Rescue Network we are excited to have Michael Grace as our new Director of Corporate Relations.  Michael has been an advocate for CRN for years and has built a successful insurance company, Grace Financial Service Associates.  Now he is also helping in the vital role of fundraising for us.  As you know without funds coming in the door no business, nonprofit or otherwise, can survive long.   We Michael Graceare delighted to have Michael's assistance and expertise as we continue to reach more and more families with our important safety messages and tools. 

Child Rescue Network is of course a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, which basically means we have certain rules we must follow and criteria to meet in order to be recognized as a tax-exempt charity.  We do... in fact, we were lucky enough to be chosen for a random audit by the IRS and were indeed found to be doing what we are supposed to do.  You can see the letter on our web site... in fact you can find our IRS tax returns and Annual Reports as well.  We want you to know that when you financially support CRN your money is being well spent.  

Michael's job is to work with corporate partners to provide the funding necessary to underwrite our safety and familiy advocacy programs so that we never have to charge a parent for any of our services.  In return we are able to quite simply make our corporate partners look good.  After-all, as consumers we understand businesses are in business to make money.  However, now more than ever we are asking "what are you doing with it", and those companies that are giving back to the community are being rewarded in so many ways.  First, it is simply the right thing to do, duh!   But it goes much deeper than that.   It is called Cause-Related Marketing and it helps everybody!   Nonprofits like Child Rescue Network are able to provide our vital programs to families and our corporate partners are seen as heroes... community minded companies that are giving back and helping to protect children!  As consumers when given a choice between two similar products or services and we know that one supports a charity, 87% of us pick the one that gives back.  So our partners can look good in the community, provide vital programs that save lives, build customer loyalty, improve employee moral, and see an actual return on investment.   Talk about your ultimate win win! 

You'll be seeing more and more Cause-Related Marketing in the years to come... because it works!  I also hope that you'll be one of those that support the companies that give back to the community... it makes everyone's lives better.

And of course I'd be remiss if I didn't take a moment to say, if you are a company or know a business owner or CEO that wants to make a real difference and help CRN reach families we have a wide variety of ways to can get involved.  You can reach Michael Grace at 407.340.1010 or me, Jeff Griesemer, at 877.209.5437 ext. 89.   If you are interested in helping to raise funds for CRN please contact me as well.  Thank you all for your incredible support.  

 

Last Updated ( Tuesday, 30 March 2010 13:00 )
 
Predator Pediatrician PDF Print E-mail
Written by Jeff Griesemer   
Friday, 26 February 2010 17:47

Earl Bradley, a pediatrician in Delaware has been charged with 471 counts of felony sexual abuse on 103 of his patients over the last 10 years and other victims are likely.   Many of the assaults were evidently taped by Bradley as more than 13 hours of video recordings, dating back to 1998, were seized by authorities and additional charges could be added. 

A doctor... normally we think of caring individuals dedicated to healing.  The arrest of this monster reminds us that those that prey on our children are not always lurking in the dark shadows.  Many predators are individuals you would never suspect... people with respectable jobs, people with families, people that blend in to the community.  

In just the last few days a New York Youth Counselor, an Illinois doctor,  and an evangelist in Arizona were all arrested on child pornography charges.   A Minister in Maryland, a teacher in Virginia, and another teacher in California were arrested on charges relating to child sexual offenses.   The Mayor of Racine, WI was arrested for using the Internet to try to arrange a sexual liaison with what he thought was a teen girl, in separate sting operations a minister from Texas and a soccer coach in Virginia were also arrested looking on the Internet for sex with underage girls.   And these cases are not the only ones!

I share this to point out the fact that the Justice Dept. estimates there are more than 4 million child molesters in the U.S.  The overwhelming majority have never been caught and are a continuous threat to our children.   One of the reasons they have not been caught yet is because they are respectable members of the community who don't fit the bill as what we believe to be a "Child Predator".  

How can you tell who is a threat to your children and who is not?   Unfortunately you can't!   So instead, parents must work hard to empower kids, make them confident, and make sure we build open lines of communication so that if something does ever happen they are quick to tell.  Predators are looking for that child that they can control... with whom they can build a relationship and then ultimately abuse.  In the overwhelming majority of cases the abuser is someone the child and the family knows and trusts, which is one of the reasons Child Rescue Network is so adamant about eliminating the "Stranger Danger" message that is so misleading and damaging to our kids.

For safety information to help parents teach kids how to recognize potentially dangerous situations and then how to react if necessary simply click here.

 

 
One in Six is Rescued PDF Print E-mail
Written by Jeff Griesemer   
Tuesday, 16 February 2010 14:40

When it comes to missing children, there is an amazing fact... one in six is rescued because of a picture!  That's right, somebody recognizes a photograph, gets involved, and a child comes home!  How wonderful is that?   Hopefully this information will cause you to do two things.  One: Immediately obtain an updated photo of your child so that if he or she is ever missing for whatever reason you'll have the single most important tool to help find them quickly.  And two: Look at those pictures of missing kids that you see!  You might be the one to help a family locate a missing child.

Child Rescue Network partners with several companies to help get photos of missing children out to the public.  The Fireball Run in 2007 and 2008 help distribute over 100,000 posters of missing children in over 20 states and of the 120 children featured during the event, to date, 40 have been rescued!  That first year Clear Channel Outdoor provided nearly $200,000 in billboards in 5 major cities each featuring one of our missing kids!

Child Rescue Network is currently partnering with Redline Review, an online magazine for auto enthusiasts and more.   Redline Review travels around the country covering a wide variety of racing and other auto related events.  You'll find great articles and incredible photos plus each article features a missing child.   Just recently a child featured on the web site was rescued. 

Mile Marker Magazine is found in rest stops throughout Arkansas helping travelers with important information and yes, each edition contains a photo and information regarding one of our missing children! 

We even have smaller publications and company newsletters that are also helping Child Rescue Network get pictures of missing children out to the public.   Companies like Rinaldi's Air Conditioning in East Orlando are currently helping CRN's mission.

We thank all of these fine companies as well as the countless others who frequently display posters of missing kids on their premises as well as our wonderful volunteers who help distribute posters and other information.  You never know when a simple picture will change a life forever!  How about taking a look at some of our cases now?  Do you have a method to distribute pictures of missing kids and would like to help, simply This e-mail address is being protected from spambots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it .

Last Updated ( Thursday, 11 March 2010 16:42 )
 
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